sábado, 30 de maio de 2009

OS DEZ MANDAMENTOS DO CASAL FELIZ






1 - Nunca irritar-se ao mesmo tempo. Evite a explosão. Quanto mais
é complicada a situação, mais a calma é necessária.

2 - Nunca gritar um com o outro, a não ser que a casa esteja pegando
fogo. Quem tem bons argumentos não precisa gritar.

3 - Se alguém deve ganhar na discussão, deixe que seja o outro.
Se o diálogo se transformar em discussão, permita que o outro vença,
para que mais rápido ela termine.

4 - Se for inevitável chamar a atenção, faça com caridade. A crítica só é válida quando é construtiva, amorosa, sem acusações e sem condenações.


5 - Nunca jogar na "cara" do outro os erros do passado. A pessoa é sempre maior do que os seus erros.

6 - A displicência com qualquer pessoa pode até ser tolerável, menos com o cônjuge. A falta de atenção para com o outro demonstra desprezo. Seja atento ao que o outro diz, aos seus problemas e as aspirações.

7 - Nunca ir dormir sem reconciliar-se. Não se ponha o sol sobre o vosso ressentimento. Não se pode deixar acumular problema sobre problema.

8 - Pelo menos uma vez ao dia, dizer ao outro uma palavra carinhosa. Não basta amar o outro. É preciso também expressar com palavras. Como são importantes essas expressões de carinho que fazem o outro crescer: "eu te amo," você "e muito importante para mim…"

9 - Cometendo um erro, saiba reconhecê-lo e pedir desculpas. Isto é humildade. Agindo assim, eliminamos o conflito e estabelecemos a paz.

10 - Quando um não quer, dois não brigam. A melhor maneira é não por lenha na fogueira. Muitas vezes é pelo silêncio de um que a calma retorna ao coração do outro.

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